Sunday, September 28, 2008
Ohhh, we're halfway there...
Yep. Mr Smith slept through the night last night. Now, its just one night. And he was HORRIBLY upset all day at the world and all who dwell in it. But he went to sleep quickly after his final feeding and I had to WAKE HIM UP this morning. (Granted, he woke up first around 6:30, which actually prompted me out of bed. But he fell back asleep and I waited until 7 to wake he and sister and begin feeding).
Tonight will tell the tale, to see if it was a fluke or a new behavior. Regardless, I'm thrilled. And as happy as I am, I STILL had to get up at 4:30 to feed Ms. Addison. While I think most experiences wiht twins are pretty much par for the course for those with a single baby, this is an experience that really so few folks have. Normally, you're children either sleep through the night, or they don't!
They'll be two months Wednesday, so expect the requisite pictures. We've also go their two month checkup that day, so we'll have lots of official sounding statistics and percentiles to throw your way.
Dad is VERY happy. Mom had yesterday off to, of all things, go to a football game with the girls. (This is not a lie. Its amazing the stories the ladies will concoct to leave the kids with the fellas.) Smith, Addison, and I went to Scott and Carter's to watch the game on PPV. Smith proceeded to act the fool AGAIN (as he did a few weeks ago when scott and carter came over to watch football at our house).
Lets hope we get a sleep through the night night tonight (wow, that looks like I just wanted to repeat the word night 3 times, but it actually does make sense) without the day-craziness of yesterday.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Welcome Baby Georgia
Monday, September 22, 2008
Just some pictures
We've been really bad bloggers lately, especialyl with the pictures. Honestly, we just haven't taken as many pictures in the past few weeks, partly because I think when we HAVE some time that we actually could do so, we're ready to just sit down and relax.
But, just to keep everyone updated, here are some pictures from the past few weeks.
Mom had a little photo shoot. This is post feeding, so they must be happy.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Our Nightly Routine
Any way you look at it, we're on the downhill slope. Pretty much from the night we got home, we've only been getting up once a night with them, so its not been as bad as we've heard from other parents. But still - we'd both love a full night of sleep. We're alternating who gets up each night so that at least one of us gets an uninterrupted night of sleep each night.
So, in our efforts to coax our children into night sleeping, we've instituted the following nighttime routine.
- The "final" feeding is at 7 PM.
- After this feeding, we bathe them.
- They then get "spa time," in which they are massaged with some night time baby lotion (I am not making this up. I made fun of Krissee at first, but it really does help them to calm down.)
- They're swaddled and placed in the crib
- Dad reads them a story.
- The lights are turned off, the mobile is turned on for 5 minutes, and the door is shut.
We awaken them around 10-11 for their final feeding of the day, which is kept quiet and strictly business - feeding and a diaper change. No playing.
After that, we go to bed.
And each night, even if its the other's night, we truly hope that tonight is the night.
When its not your night, you can't wait to wake in the morning and ask the other "How did it go?" and "When did they wake up?"
We'll get it. Its still crazy early. But rest assured, once we're getting full nights of sleep? That is going to be like an extra cherry on top of a bowlful of cherries that tops the most decadent chocolate and ice cream concoction known to man.
Yep - THAT good.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Getting Current
If you can dish it out, you've got to be willing to take it, so thanks Heather, for "Nice current blog"-ing me.:)
Who knew that once we left the children for one night, it'd go so much easier? We haven't spent more than a few waking hours at home as we've decided to resume our rock star lifestyles. Parties every night, dinners out. Babysitters do complicate the equation somewhat, but we're managing.
PSYCHE. Honestly, mom's been sick. Dad is sick. Dad was out of town for a few days. Mom had Cookie come stay and help. Babies are growing and they are six weeks old today.
Had a big visit from Ellie and Turner (and their mom Carissa and friend Ashley) on Saturday. Ellie and Turner are 6 1/2 months older than Smith and Addison, so there wasn't a whole lot of interaction going on. If anything, it reinforced the fact that we need to cuddle and hold our sweet babies as long as possible. Its been a very neat experience to watch them grow up. Carissa gave birth the week we discovered we were having twins. She's been a great resource all along the way and more than anything, she's reminded us that they'll be ok no matter what we do, so its best to be able to laugh along the way.
That is our big updates. NO new milestones, other than the six week mark. I think we'll all be close to 100% this weekend.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Mom and Dad's Crazy Night Out
During the pregnancy, we discussed many times how important we thought it would be for us to be able to have some time that didn't involve the kids. We decided that we'd try to plan a once a month date night, so that we'd be able to have conversations that didn't necerssarily revolve around how many ounces they drank or who had what diaper when.We've had many people tell us about how hard it would be to leave them.
Well, I hate to say it like this, but it wasn't that hard. Maybe they knew it was coming, so from 4 until about 6:00, Smith and Addison screamed and cried. It was FIERCE. At six, we fed 'em, and they promptly fell asleep. Heath and Jessa arrived at 6:30 and we were off.
We got home just in time to see kickoff for the Gamecock game at 8:30. All in all, it was a successful evening out. We had a few beverages, ate some food, and chatted. Some chatter was regarding teh children, but we also talked about other stuff. In fact, it was just as we received our appetizer that we remarked "We haven't talked about the kids yet."
When we got home...the babies were cuddled up and it was obvious they had been in good hands. Thanks Heath and Jessa!
Unfortunately, all this occurred without a single photo being snapped. Maybe for the October edition!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Busy Weekend
Some of our closest friends, Adam and Haley, and our godson Jack stopped by to visit. They were some of our first visitors in the hospital, and we're all super glad that they're headed back to Columbia!
Now, being the overprotective father that I already am, especially in all manners concerning my daughter's dating future, I'm wary of any male child spending too much time around her. But Jack is a special kid, and you can already tell he's going to be super sweet, just like his godfather Daniel. I know some other friends think that Jack is betrothed to their daughter Emmie, but I checked with the family and they indicated that there was no dowery, so all bets were off.
Super Sweet One Month
Our friends Ellie and Turner/Carissa and Craig have been doing this tradition of taking pictures each month with a sign in the background. We're shamelessly stealing that idea!
One of our neighbors made the stuffed animals that you see in the pictures. We figured it would be a good way to measure their size alone the way too!
Monday, September 1, 2008
Life with babies
We've moved on to making bottles on demand (expect some great advice on that later this week). As such, the canister of formula sits on our kitchen counter. Right next to the coffee maker.
I'm making another cup this morning, and without thinking, instead of picking up the cream, I pick up the formula canister.
I quickly realized the error I was getting ready to make and put the formula down and picked up the cream. Luckily this was my 3rd cup instead of my first. I have a feeling that at some point in the future, I'll be having formulafee. (thats my name for the formula/coffee mixture).
Smith and Addison just told me to tell everyone Happy Labor Day.
Its also their one month birthday today! We're heading out to Nanny's and Papa's for a Labor Day cookout/Nanny birthday feast, so its a very big day up in our house. We'll be doing the one month photo shoot tonight when we get home, so expect a great week of entries!
Friday, August 29, 2008
Go gamecocks
Addison proved that she is her mother's child by not being interested in football...at all.
Smith, however, really seemed to get into it, although he did tucker out pretty early on.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Still alive
Daniel had his first trip out of town on Monday - Wednesday. Krissee's friend Ashley came down to assist mom in the well-being of the Daybies (and Mom, via some great meals from Trader Joes. We need one of those in Columbia!)
Here's Ms. Ashley conquering the double feed!
Friday, August 22, 2008
Weekend - Do what you want to do!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Vice presidents ain't got nothin' on us
There is a big debate raging currently in the Day household, and the only way to settle it is to pose it to the masses,
Which is cuter...socks and hats or no socks and hats (we mean in general terms, not these pictures specifically). Bonus points if you can identify the correct parent with their opinion.
A visit from Carter and Mom
(And yes, Carter is in the upper percentiles for his age, and Smith and Addison are a good two months younger than he is).
Come back soon Amber and Carter (and Scott if you're letting him out of the house these days).! We can't wait to watch our children grow up together and be perfect little angels for the next eighteen years.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Two Week Checkup and PIcs
The entire checkup was good, and the docs said that these were beautiful babies ande to keep doing what we were doing. (And I"m sure that pediatricians don't go around telling their patients that their children are beautiful, so I feel incredibly honored that ours would give out such a rare compliment!) He did mention that it'd be best to avoid crowds for 6 more weeks. I wasn't planning a weekend bender at the local pub next weekend or anything, but I kinda thought we'd be able to start venturing out a little bit more. But its a small price to pay for healthy babies!
Finally, I've been slack on the pictures, so I wanted to post some here.
Friday, August 15, 2008
Father of the year
In the "our life is an open book" vein of this blog, here is the twins feeding plan: Krissee fully intended to breast feed, but the smaller size of the babies coupled with the practical realities of feeding two babies at once have forced us to use bottles. Krissee is pumping and we're on a 1/2 and 1/2 mixture of breast milk and formula. Its working out great and seems to be a win/win for all parties (meaning mom isn't strapped to a baby all day, we know how much they're feeding, and Dad gets to help!)
So, Krissee pumps, and its my job to make up bottles once a day. At this point, they're eating about 3 oz. at every feeding (which is every 3 hours), so every night I'm making a breast milk/formula cocktail. Just call me a mixologist. For those doing the math at home, thats 24 oz of each, for a total of 48 oz needed to fill all 16 bottles. For those who are in the know, that's twelve scoops of formula.
On Wed. night, when I'm making the formula, I did the unthinkable and got distracted. Was that scoop # 7 or #8? Figuring that it wasn't a big deal, really, I erred on the side of caution and went with the lower number, cause, babies need nutrients, you know? I completed the formula mixing and went on to my next task, never giving it a second thought.
Thursday, we were fighting what we thought were sick babies - lots of mucous that made feeding take an hour. Their poor little mouths were filling up with this thick pasty stuff. They weren't finishing their bottles. All in all, not a Day was happy.
Last night, after struggling with the 7 o'clock feeding, it was time again for me to make the bottles. As I'm getting ready to do the formula, it dawns of me...I may have put too much formula in the day before. Too much powder = thicker liquid = harder to swaller = less intake.
So, I ensured that the correct amount of formula was placed within the mixing cup, poured some bottles, and anxiously awaited the 10:00 feeding to see if it was better.
Y'all...it was flawless. BOth babies ate their entire bottles in approximately 30 minutes. We put them down and they slept soundly. We fed them once during the night (as we have been doing for the past few days), and it was pretty darn flawless as well. As was this morning's feeding.
DSS, I promise not to make this mistake again. I promise.
(Note to self - Determine what twelve scoops equals in a measuring cup so that I don't have to keep track of counting, because in my altered state of mind, counting to twelve is apparently pretty darn taxing. God help us all when they increase the amount of formula!)
Thursday, August 14, 2008
At home with Smith and Addison
I just wanted to say hi and let everyone know I'm still alive just crazy busy. Today is one of my first full days alone with Smith and Addison. Daniel and I did the 7:00 AM feeding together and then he went downstairs to work. So its just me and my sweet babies and we are getting along just fine. There isn't much time for anything else other than feeding and changing diapers but I have to say I absolutely LOVE it. Even though I haven't had a shower yet today and I'm still in PJ's at 1:00 in the afternoon I've never been so happy. They are so precious and I still can't believe they are mine.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Honesty
I'm blue da ba dee da ba die
Some dear friends sent us a beautiful flower arrangement in the hospital. These flowers arrived in a blue flower vase. Fast Forward a week or so, and the flowers are wilted, so the flowers get tossed, and the vase gets put in the dishwasher.
This vase, unbeknown to us, was a painted vase, and proceeded to chip and color everything in our dishwasher blue. Under normal circumstances, this would be pretty annoying. However, add in the fact that our entire bottle supply was ALSO in the dishwasher at the same time, well, there you have a near disaster. We spent a few hours trying to clean 'em up, but finally decided that no amount of scrubbing or boiling would ever make us comfortable with feeding our babies out of blue speckled bottles. So Dad got the very special privelage of going to Wal-Mart on a Friday night at 10:00 PM to purchase new bottles.
Got home, Grandma (Ann) helped us sterilize everything, and we were back in business. Crisis averted (kinda).
Moral of story? : Don't put colored vases in dishwasher without first checking to see if it is a painted vase.
My little scavenger(s)
So remember when I wrote about our dog Allie, and how she likes trash?
Well, she hit the motherload yesterday morning.
There was a bag of dirty diapers sitting in the laundry room, ready to be taken out to the trash can. Dad had gone downstairs to work, and the dogs were in for breakfast and general inside time.
A little while later, I returned back upstairs to refill the coffee cup, and was greated wtih the smell of baby poo. I thought this to be odd, since the nursery with the diaper champ is a good little ways from the kitchen/office area. Upon further exploration, I discovered that my nasty little girl (allie) had found her own little corner of heaven right in our laundry room.
I'll spare you the picture, but I DID get one, just for posterity sake.
Cleaning that up was super-duper fun.
Moral of story: Don't 1) Leave bags of dirty diapers accessible to your nasty little dogs and 2) Don't let your dogs be nasty little dogs.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Day Birth Day
Our friend Jenn wrote a commemorative poem summarizing the birth experience that we live blogged just days ago. Her blog requires authorization to read, but she welcomes new visitors! For those who don't have access, I've asked her if I could reprint the poem here, and she gave me permission to re-post (Thanks Jenn for the awesome recap of the experience!) :
Day Birth Day
(a very special poem commemorating the birth of Smith and Addison Day, twins, born August 1, 2008 @ 2:07 and 2:36 AM)
(Congrats to Daniel and Krissee on the birth of their first children)
They went to the doctor; she said, “let’s go;
It’s time to start the Smith and Addison Day Show!”
The doc hooked Krissee up to an IV
To start the contractions they’d yet to see.
An hour later contractions were regular;
Aunts, uncles, and grandparents began to gather.
Smith said “Come on, sis!” But Addy said, “No way!
I’m not quite ready to meet the world today!”
So they settled back in to that comfortable womb
And their faithful doctor left the room.
Daniel sighed; he was ready to rock!
But it turns out his daughter has her mother’s clock.
***
The Days rested all night so they wouldn’t be worn
When it was time to start again the very next morn.
They wakened early; Krissee fixed her hair and face
Before everyone got ready and got back into place.
The contractions got going; the water was broken.
Then, finally, the word “epidural” was spoken!
After all, in Daniel’s words, “Contractions don’t look fun!”
Krissee agreed, and then she happily went numb.
After several more hours, day turned to night
But the twins still weren’t ready to come into the light.
The epidural wore off, and pain crossed Krissee’s face
As the docs prepped the O.R.—just in case.
Then finally the babies decided, “It’s time!”
And Addison headed on down the line.
Not wanting to wear his poor mommy out,
Smith waited 29 minutes to follow A’s route.
“5 lbs. 11 oz.” read Addison’s scale;
A nurse declared, “2 ounces less weighs the male!”
They bundled them up—one in pink, one in blue
Then showed ‘em to family and now to you, too!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Thanks Aunt Heather
Aunt heather came and stayed with us for a few days. She did lots of things to help us out around the house, so that Mom and Dad could focus all their energy on the Daybies.
Filling up the bottles for one day sure does take a long time. Not only does it take time to FILL the darn things, but washing, drying, making formula isn't super quick either.
Best of all, Aunt Heather scrubbed our floors. We certainly don't make our guests do this, but she insisted! I don't think anyone has done this in our home, but the floors certainly look phenomenal. This is actually a double edged sword, wherein I'm happy she did this, but also kinda mad. Happy, because our floors look great; Sad, because now I'm going to have to do this on a regular basis to keep the floors looking good.
Thanks again, Heather. To our future helpers, the bar has been set pretty darn high.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Q&A
Q: Colly from Charlotte, NC writes" Don't jaundice beds look like little mini tanning beds....?? Can we see??"
A: Yes, Colly, jaundice beds look like mini tanning beds. We're starting early! Here is a picture of the twins in their beds, which were placed in their pack and plays.
Q: Jenn from Anderson, SC asks "What could be worse: her dating or her hating you?? "
A: At this point, it may be a toss up.
Q: Schmitty from Carlsbad, NM asks " what do the doggies think of the daybies?"
A: The dogs are adjusting. They're doing a lot of sniffing, but other than that, they really aren't all that aware of the daybies. At this point, I think they're just glad to be home and have us home!
Q: Carissa from Charlotte, NC chimed in and queried "I don't think I know what Smith and Addison's middle names are?"
A: Their full names are Mary Addison Day and Smith Chapman Day.
Jaundice levels were better today, so they're off the beds. Hopefully we'll get the complete for real all clear tomorrow!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
If I just lay here
Went back to Dr...Addison is a whopping 6 lbs and Brother is still at 5 lbs 8 oz. Jaundice levels had decreased substantially, but they were ordered another day on the beds just to be sure.
Aunt Heather came in this afternoon to help take care of Mom and Dad so they can focus all their energy onto the Daybies. She has, however, managed to sneak in a little baby loving in between tasks from slave master Krissee.
My babies continue to be happy and healthy, and that's the best news I can share.
Monday, August 4, 2008
1 Down, 6569 to go...
We got home yesterday (Sunday) around noon. Babies and mom are doing great. We quickly settled into a a routine and so far the babies sugar level is staying pretty high, despite repeated attempts to steal it all from multiple people.
Aside from a little jaundice, everything is going great. They're laid out in their jaundice beds now, and hopefully our pediatrician will give us the all clear tomorrow.
A few quick observations from Dad:
- My little girl is not allowed to date until she turns 45.
- A successful diaper change requires the proper preparation of all needed materials.
- Full nights of sleep are the stuff that unicorns and fairies are made of.
- I'm not entirely sure that the previous sentence made sense.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
You. Better. Work.
http://www.palmettohealth.org/bodyIframe.cfm?id=252
(Here's the link to the official, professionally taken photograph. But we can't have them all dressed up and not use daddy's photo taking skills, which are far superior to his bow-hunting skills).
Yep, thats our Boy and our Girl! The quilts behind them were made by Krissee's Granny Coy (GreatGranny Coy to Smith and Addison). Each one is handmade and its super special. Every great grandchild has received one, but and I think Granny Coy worked her poor fingers to the bone once she found out it was twins!
So, one major topic of the past few days has been who they each look like. I've posted the earliest pictures I have of each of us as babies. You be the judge!

Mom and Babies are doing great. Babies have a little jaundice which may limit our ability to go home tomorrow (Sunday). We'll know more after our pediatrician's visit at Dark 'Thirty tomorrow morning.
This entry has taken all day to write. I just think that's good information to pass along!
Friday, August 1, 2008
Thanks
Mom, dad and babies are finally settled, and its time to sleep for the first time in what seems like nine weeks.
We are asking that if u plan on calling or visiting, please do so later this afternoon (after one or two+.
They're here
She came at 2:07, 5 lbs 11 oz, 19 and a half inches.
He came at 2:36, 5 lbs 9 oz, 19 and a half inches.
Mom did awesome, and babies are great. I'm standing in nursery while the nurses check em out.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Not just yet
Will try again at twelve. If its still not where it needs to be, they'll do a c section. Its been long enough since the water broke that there is risk of infection.
We'll...that was fun...
Krissee's epidural stopped working, so there were a few hours there where the pain was pretty pad. Finally, the doctor came in and agreed that the pain was probably too bad....so after some coaxing to ther anesthiologist, the epidural was taken out (with no side effects) and re-applied.
After a few minutes, relief.
So, here's the latest. She's nine centimeters dialated. They've told her to try and get a few minutes of rest, and that hopefully she'll be pushing shortly (around eleven).
We'll see... Important thing is that mom has found relief now, and she's calm enough that she can start pushing with gusto and get these babies here.
I'll try and do a quick post as we head to the or.
Gettin there
Nurse said at this rate, she should start pushing around nine pm.
No news
We're just waiting. Dr said if no progress is made by six, we'll think about other options (c-section).
We both napped, and now we're visiting with family.
Krissee's resting comfortably now. Dialated to 5cm. Should be another few hours (average is 1 cm an hour, and for all you guys who don't know any of this, which I didn't until a few weeks ago, fully dialated is 10cm).
Everybody's doing great. I'm gonna try and catch a few z's along with my wife, as the pull out sofa in the room is not the most comfortable thing ever.
More later.
Epidural
Contractions continue. The doctor is supposed to come by around lunch time, so we'll find our how far she's progressed then.
More....
Contractions are continuing every couple of minutes.
4 CM
Epidural is on its way.
Everyone's happy and healthy. Everyone will be happier and healthier shortly, when the epidural comes!
Moving along nicely. Contraction don't look fun...at all.
Continuing....
So basically? No update, but updating to document the process and keep you all off my back! :)
The update is no update
When she gets here, they'll start the pitocin again and break her water.
Dr. just arrived..so we're getting started!!! And so it begins...again.
See you soon Smith and Addison.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Proper Update
Mom and Babies are doing great. Quite frankly, I think the dr. needed a reason to push up our induction from Monday to today. She was ready and thought the babies were, but protocol says you can't take 'em prior to 37 weeks. (Now, this is entirely my opinion and could be completely incorrect. Our doctor has not told us nor implied this in any way, shape, or form).
Since Krissee didn't really get started on the pitocin until about 1 PM, it was considered a late start. The doctor warned us that if she wasn't progressing very fast that she may pull her today and start again first thing in the AM (like 5 AM first thing). So that's where we are now, and why its a tad unusual. While all signs are still pointing to a vaginal delivery, there is always the risk of a C-Section, especially with twins. As such, we'll deliver in the OR rather than the standard birthing room. If a C-Section is required, our doctor wanted to do it during the daytime when the hospital is fully staffed, rather than 3 AM. It also gives us ALL a chance for a good night of rest.
We'll be back at it tomororw, early. Thanks for the poems and rhymes, and I think I love the term Daybies.
Smith and Addison - we'll meet you tomororw!
On hold
Thanks for all the well wishes, excitement, and prayers.
Update update baby
The great waiting game continues.
Update - 4 pm
More later!
Update - 3pm
Doctor says that we'll evaluate this later this afternoon. Worst case, we'll stop the pitocin this evening and restart it first thing tomorrow.
More later!
It begins....
After an ultrasound, they said that the level of amniotic fluid wasn't measureable, so they needed to induce.
Mom and babies are doing well. She's just starting pitocin now. We'll see where we go from here.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Funny Pregnancy Quote
Sunday, July 27, 2008
That picture behind the bed sure is nice...
The highlight of the stay occurred on Sunday morning while we're in the elevator on the way to breakfast. When the elevator stopped on our floor for us to get on, there was a little boy on there with an adult (the boy was 3-4 years old).
We get on, and the little boy points his finger at Krissee's belly and exclaims "What you got in there?" The words themselves just don't convey the funniness of the situation. The attitude was a cross between "You look like you're going to pop and I want to know what is getting ready to ooze all over me." and "You've stuck something in your belly that belongs to the hotel and I'm telling because my Daddy told me that you shouldn't steal!"
Krissee explains to him that there are two babies in there, and he seemed to understand.
Since then, I've been fond of pointing at her and exclaiminig "What you got in there?"
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Friday's Doctor Visit
So since it appears that I will not be going into labor anytime soon Daniel and I are going to the Hilton for a Mom and Dad's last night out. We plan to soak up some rays by the pool and then go to a fancy dinner. I'm really looking forward to it and I think it will be good to get me out of the house and away from my list of things to do.
We will be back at the doctor on Monday for NST testing but to be honest I think we have given up hope that Smith and Addison will be here before the 4th and that's ok as long as they are healthy I can't ask for more.
